The New and Living Way Church, Ikorodu

Meeting:              Sunday Service

Date:.                   7, November 2021

Sunday school:  Marriage Relationship as Ordained by God

Ministers:        Pst Segun Olayiwola, Pst Moses Omokhafe & Pst Laide Olaniyan

Sunday School ( Pst Segun)

God is looking forward to very strong marriages because that’s the foundation of a strong church, when marriages are not solid the Church will not be solid, that’s why Satan fight marriages and homes, so things cannot be right, so the church can be very weak.

One of the greatest harm or deceit  Satan has done is to redefine everything, so we can see things wrongly.

( 1 Cor 7: 1-9, 33-34, Prov 5:15-19)

Leaving and cleaving in marriage isn’t just physical departure but also involves the Soul, because the soul has married a lot of things; culture, profession etc. When marriage occurs there’s a need to leave in the soul and cleave to your spouse.

  Gen 1:26-31. The will of God is for the two persons is to become one,  and the means by  which this can be done is through healthy and wholesome sexual intercourse. 

What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.1 Cor 6:16.  Mark 10:8.

One of the purpose of marriage is to make the man and the woman become one Flesh and that can be achieved in the sexual intercourse. Looking at the anatomy of the man and woman, we know that the genitals are designed to merge together. That’s why anyone that says he’s gay or a lesbian is deluded.  The joining signifies oneness in the spirit. 

Sex is very important in a marriage because without it there would be  a lot issues. It’s a powerful tool and that’s why Satan fights it. It is what will bring the man and the woman together, it’s an activity that’s so spiritual and that’s why Satan has bastardize it and makes it look unholy. God Wants husband and wife to come together as often as possible.

The only place sex is frowned at is outside marriage, once we do it we brake a lot of spiritual laws and principles in the spirit. It’s a sin against the body. Sex in the confines of marriage is a very powerful tool, to unite the husband and the wife. It’s is highly spiritual, we would be amazed at how much healing takes place if couples constantly come together.

Satan has gone ahead to paint sex bad and expose people unduly to the issues of sex. Satan has  both exposed sex to people who are not supposed to practice it and at the same time he brought religion to condemn it totally. Religion in attempt to contain the abuse if it, ends up demonizing it. So people won’t be open to it, and some people come with this mindset to their marriage and end up affecting their spouse.

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 1 Cor 7:3

It’s  is an act of kindness to your spouse, Sex begins from the soul. One of the things Satan attacked in Eden is marriage, he spread false ideologies around sex to further ensure the home falls short of the expectations of God.

Satan did not create sex, It is God ordained. Gen 1:26, Sex is for bonding, it’s for procreation, it’s for pleasure. It’s an attitude of giving, It promotes openness between couples.

SUNDAY SCHOOL ROUND-UP ( PST MOSES & PST OLAIDE )

The Myth about ; that I need to be experienced so I will do well in marriage, it’s not true. 

Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. 15  And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth., Mal 2: 14-15, (Eph 5: 25-31).

Sex is very spiritual, it is a tool of spiritual warfare, a weapon to fight against Satan 

Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 1 Cor 7:5

There’s nothing else in scriptures God gave to couples to fight against Satan. If sex is a weapon in the hands of couples, when people who are not married handles it, it will destroy them.  Outside of marriage God has instituted a protection for you as a single; seek the lord, that’s your security as a single.

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